2012 End of the World Wedding?

Just wondering, has anyone gotten any interesting comments about having your wedding on the day of or after the "end of the world" event? Seriously, we've all known about this supposed event our entire lives but most people don't really take it that seriously. Oh, I just found out though that most people in China didn't have a clue about this event until they saw the movie 2012. I'm not to sure if it's because the Chinese government just likes to censor everything or the Chinese are just too practical to believe in this kind of stuff.

Anyways, has anyone giving you a lot of unwanted comments about your after the end of the world wedding? I've been reading online and I was surprised at how many people were criticizing brides for having their wedding in 2012 even! I mean really? Granted, I believe that something interested will happen to this world that might compromise some of humanity, but I don't think that would happen for thousands of years later on. I mean, let's face it, the end of the world is bound to happen one day, even our sun will explode one day and it'll take Earth out with it. But again, not for a very, very long time!

Besides, people, it's someone's wedding! Stop ruining it for them. This is probably the most important day of their life up to this point. Even if the world did end this year, do you want to be responsible for destroying the last bit joy that the couple can experience before they disappear? So please be nice to those who are having their wedding this year and next year, they deserve to enjoy their own wedding!

So the old saying goes "Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue." Finding something new is easy, it could simply be your wedding dress. To find something old and borrowed, you might enlist the help of your friends and relatives. Although, that will also be fairly easy. What's going to be the most difficult thing to find is something blue. The traditional wedding dress is normally either white or ivory. How are you going to find a way to incorporate something blue into your attire? Listed are 5 easy ways to incorporate some of that blue into your attire:

1. Temporary blue colored tattoo
2. Blue sash wrapped around the bride's bouquet
3. Blue heels (or simply shoes decorated with blue gems)
4. Small blue hair pins to decorate your hair-do
5. A simple blue gem piece of jewelry

There's actually a ton you can do to incorporate blue into your wedding outfit. You just sometimes need to think outside the box:)

                           

Getting a Cold Feet?

Getting cold feet on the day of your wedding is never a good feeling. You can seriously hurt both your marriage partner and yourself if things aren't handled properly. I mean, just look at Carrie and Big in Sex and the City Movie! Big had at first planned on abandoning the wedding, but he cleared his mind and knew that he wanted to marry Carrie. However, by then it was too late and Carrie had already left the venue, hating him for abandoning her and believing that he didn't love her...what a mess right? I mean, they eventually got married like a year later but not without enduring some serious broken heart pain for the both of them.

However, getting cold feet is a fairly normal thing. I mean, who wouldn't be nervous about making the decision to make spend of your life with this one person...your entire life kind of depends on whether you're making the right choice...sorry, didn't mean to scare you there. However, the point is that it's a big decision, probably the biggest decision you will ever make in your life, so it's normal to be a little nervous and/or hesitant. Seriously, it might be a little worrisome if you weren't nervous. The difference between your cold feet and a friends is that you know how to cope with it. Hence, avoiding a disaster of a wedding as well.

Remember one simple rule though: if you're worried about the little things on the day of your wedding (pet peeves, annoying habits, etc), it's probably not worth calling off the wedding. True, a lot of times it's the little things that matter, but merging you and your groom's life together is certainly not going to be easy. You have to accommodate for him and him for you. Besides, if you're already at the day of your marriage, surely you guys have already figured out most of these little things. So stop worrying! Well, maybe do worry if you guys haven't talked about any of this stuff...if that's the case, then it's a whole different story.

However, if there are bigger issues at hand, then you might want to consider breaking off the wedding. These include:

1. Physical or emotional abuse
2. Money spending habits and lifestyle: yep, a huge portion of marriages end in divorce because of money.
3. Betrayal: cheating, lying, etc.
4. Children: you want 5 and he's set on having none for example.
5. Religion: some religious conflicts are very hard to solve.
6. Drug, alcohol, gambling additions. Any unhealthy addictions really.
7. Trust: if you guys still have trust issues, you probably shouldn't get married quite yet (or even be together for that matter).

Last minute differences

Yep, I agree, not all weddings end up all lovey dovey. In fact, NPR has the scope on two couples with both have their differences. One was able to work it out as a just-about-to-be-married-couple should while the other couple just flopped. Listen/read their story and learn from their success and mistakes <3 

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